So... here I go again. Throwing this out in the void and seeing where it lands.

For pretty much as long as I've been attracted to women, I've always had the intuitive sense that I wanted my partner to be the one "in charge" and control me. While I'm not submissive in other aspects of my life, for whatever reason of nature or nurture, I find myself incredibly drawn by the idea of confident and dominating women; the more that a lady has such traits, the more attractive she is to me, and in turn the more I want to serve her..

Of course, to say the least... in most of the world today, this goes against the norms and unspoken rules of dating. So, while I've had a few "normal" relationships that were enjoyable in their own way... I've come to realize they aren't really as fulfilling as this could be.

Ideally, I'd hope to one day find a relationship based on trust and mutual affection and shared interests and goals... much like any human being. However, I think I'd feel much more comfortable in such a relationship if we both openly agreed that the woman should be the one with the power and I'm there to serve her.

I'm very service oriented, and think I would get a lot of psychological satisfaction from serving my partner and making her life more comfortable and pleasant. The thought of doing chores and other tasks for her is lovely... and basically I think I get pleasure from the thought of giving her pleasure. She should be prioritized over me, and while I think communication is very important, the last say should be hers.

As far as potential partners go- intelligence, confidence, and open-mindedness are very attractive traits in a partner, especially for s relationship like this. I value self-improvement very highly as well, and hope you do as well. In fact, if we click, I think I'd like nothing more than to help you succeed in life in every single way possible. Maybe that's dramatic, but I love the thought of serving a confident lady so much. :)

Age-wise, I'm pretty open. Could see myself dating someone from mid-20s through 50s if we really click.

A bit about me randomly:

• 33, male. Caucasian, despite my living situation. Around 184cm. My weight fluctuates a bit between 85-90 kg these days. Go to the gym pretty often and have fairly developed muscles. Been bulking a while and thinking of cutting soon. Brown hair, green eyes. Happy to send a pic after a few messages if you seem cool.
• INTJ/INTP. I find psychology fascinating although I don't have formal background in it. (I think if I went back in time, I'd have changed my college major to it). I particularly like Jung's model and find it useful in improving myself. Self-improvement is very important to me, and I hope it is for you too.
• Demisexual. So please don't send me overtly sexual content from the start. Unlike maybe 95% of guys, stereotypically, I'd find that annoying. I need to have a mental/emotional connection with a person first. And if we don't click on that level, this isn't going to work anyway. Also, while I'm looking for an affectionate dynamic, I find the "mommy" archetype some domimant ladies put on very... offputting and weirdly Freudian, so I'd really prefer to avoid that too, lol. If it's your thing cool, but we probably won't click as such.
• I work in education. Planning to go back to graduate school about 2 years from now and get a Ph.D. and then continue working in the field.
• I enjoy cycling a lot, as well as hiking and going to the gym, as mentioned above.
• I also really enjoy psychological horror and good science fiction. Thinking of writing a book one day. Should probably get started on that soon. Haha.
• Atheist, but I'm quite interested in meditation and esoteric philosophy. I don't meditate as often as I should maybe, but am quite fond of Chaos Magick (not really what it sounds like), Vajrayana, and Daoist styles. Probably closest to the psychonaut tradition and very much admire Alan Watts. I'm happy to talk with people of all religious/philosophical backgrounds so long as it's mutually respectful though. :)
• In a relationship, obviously I'd like you to be the one in charge. Probably would want it to look like a "normal" relationship to the world. But behind closed doors, you made most of the decisions. I think communication is very important in a relationship and we should both be aware of what the other wants and work towards that. But I think it'd be great if you had the final say in decisions, and generally expected me to obey you. It's something that would have to develop with time of course, but that feels most natural to me. I'm very service-oriented, and would

In the long run, I would want this to be in real life... me serving you. But necessarily this would probably have to be online first.

If somehow this long rant caught your attention and resonated with you, feel free to send me a message. For bonus points, add the word 'synchronicity' so I know you read to the end.