Edit:

Well, I guess I needed to be explicit about this, the getting-to-know you part was clearly not enough to make the point.

I am not looking for fin/pro domme. Only genuine meaningful connections!

Whoah there. The first week of 2023 is already coming to an end. As is my wine.

The thing about wine, you can read all the reviews you can find. The ones displayed in a beautiful font on a retina ready backdrop written by a pipe smoking 30-something connoisseur. And it would not matter one bit. You can't taste the hints of vanilla, the cheeky berries growing next to the grapes, the spice of the soil, the nuttiness from the barrel. Not unless your buds were primed. For if you don't know what the absence of a note is like, you can't appreciate its presence.

Okay... Is this a space for Bourdeaux Decanting Subs for Madames?

No but the parallels are on point!

You see a poster (not unlike me) may wax eloquent about how great they are and how well they know themselves and what their future partner should be like. Only when that partner actually turns up, aerates the poster's desires, partakes in a journey of experiences, the tasting notes align with the expectations. Otherwise it's all the same.

#~@#!

Fine. I'm older, hopefully wiser, still fun if not funnier.* I take my time with things, with trust and sharing. I like to get to know you, what inspires you, what makes you go. I love to help and I will not turn away from your bad spots, your fears, insecurities and whatever makes you pause. I'm not looking for a one off play, I'm looking for a relationship, kinky if possible. I want to start online and progress to irl while staying monogamous (even when online). Dommes, switches, all are welcome to DM (I identify as a switch). I only ask that you be patient and involved (and 25-35 years old cisfemme).

I am kind and caring as a person. As a sub, I am polite, mostly obedient with masochistic tendencies. I'll fawn over you, listen to you, help you vent, and expect the same in return. I would not intrude, obviously. That said, these interactions are pretty normal in a relationship and I would like us to be comfortable enough to share aspirations and struggles outside of kink. I can get too clingy sometimes but I respond well to feedback. It doesn't matter to me if you are new to domination or experienced as long as you have an expressive personality. If we click, I will likely chat with you everyday (and randomly throughout the day), share playlists, youtube together and what not. I am open to new experiences as long as they are ad free and respect privacy. I am into all sensual kinks but I don't like lists too much. We should discuss them later. I take privacy and online safety very seriously. Any public exposure is off limits. That means no sharing identifiable photos and largely limits video interactions. That also means no messaging on the popular insecure apps (kik/snap/wickr/whatever else).

If you are cool with all of this, message me directly in chat. Tell me how you spent new year's eve or what you want to do before the week is over or whatever you feel like sharing. But please share something? Despite the long post, I can be fun to chat with irrespective of us developing a relationship.

~sips wine and hopefully stares out the window.~

^\Full disclosure: popular opinion seems to tilt on the not.)