I’m M29 living in NYC and have been a Feeld user since last year. Back when I was in the DMV area, I met a couple of great people through the app. For most of my life, I’ve found myself naturally more comfortable and attracted to older women. I don’t know why, but it’s always felt like something inherent to me. When I was younger, I mostly dated women in their late 30s to late 40s.

However, since moving to NYC, I’ve found it harder to connect with older women. I’ve tried to catch their attention and make meaningful connections, but my dating journey here hasn’t been as smooth as I’d hoped. I’ve been open about my kinks and am confident in practicing them, but I’m still searching for the right match.

Just wanted to share my experience and thoughts—curious to hear if anyone else has had a similar experience!