I've found that my feed mainly shows me the man, but almost never the partnered woman, even when I see they have their profiles tied through the constellation thing. I'm confused if it is appropriate to "like" them and then either group message both, or ask to talk to only the woman. I want to make sure I am respectful to ENM situations as I am new to all of this. Group play isn't off the table for me, but I'm just trying to get accustomed to this stuff so I don't upset anyone.

Edit: I feel like I need to add some clarification because I have caused some confusion.

Yes, I'm male seeking female. The accounts in question are something like a bisexual man, and a straight woman (at least according to the profiles I've seen attached to the man's) which I guess maybe is me assuming their preferences match mine, which my assumptions could be the core of the problem.

Anyone who I have considered doing this with usually list in their bio "me and my partner are open to playing together or separately." Or something to that extent. But then the wife profile does not show up in my match feed for me to send a like or ping. So I was wondering if I was just misunderstanding how Feeld worked, or if I am just truly not getting their profiles for any reason.

I have no intention of being creepy or hunting, and I am new to a lot of this stuff as I just left a long monogamous relationship. So apologies if I have come off in a creepy way at all.