First of all should say I’m a straight 55m though tend to look/date much younger. Paired with a gal who is a FWB.

Denver - there are so many feeld forward folks in this city. Lot of great connections, dates, and fun. Highest probability a match leads to something physical of any city I’ve visited. Younger women on here.

Portland - much smaller pool obviously and a pretty unique crowd, but I find it pretty easy to connect. Bit older than Denver. I think the competition is not so stiff here.

NYC - huge pool but tough to navigate with flakes, scammers, pros, etc. Older on average and everyone lives in Brooklyn.

SF - Brutal! I must not present well to this crowd! I’ve met a couple cool, older women but it’s been surprisingly hard.

Interested in other people’s experiences!

-edit- should have added London. Quick matches with very fun women.