Hello! Context: My bio on Feeld is very clear about what I’m looking for as far as physical attributes I prefer, kinks that are a must for me, etc. I mention TWICE that I’m a size queen in my bio. Usually this means that the guys who swipe on me are above average. But once again, I’ve had a conversation with a man and gone as far as to make plans in literally 3 hours from now just for them to tell me they’re average to below average. I mention size in my bio twice for a reason, it’s THAT important to me. I always make sure to ask before we meet so that I avoid any awkwardness in person once clothes have already come off.

My question: what’s the best way to tell a guy that they’re too small for me to want to meet them? I’m genuinely curious about how you’d want to hear that from a woman who you were excited to meet.