I'm naturally dominant. I have brat tamer on my bio. Matched two brats. One talked only twice but then stopped responding. I like to have fun texting which for me includes humor. At the same time, as a Nigerian man, my style of flirting is a bit more....poetic\romantic\RNB type vibes.

Don't get me wrong I'm an actual village man who's very energetic and powerful but I'm not a one note type guy. I'm a mix of hard and soft. Romantic/passionte Plus hardcore.

That being said, I don't go into my FEELD matches guns blasting talking about how I'm going to tame people. I don't jump straight into sexting or talking hardcore dominant BDSM stuff.

I believe in actually starting off slowly then have the girl tell me what she's into and her experience. Is this the right approach with brats?

Or am I supposed to be a humorless, full throttle intense person from the get go. I can do that but I honestly prefer to know somebody first before assuming what they're actually into or willing to take from their Dom.

Hell I figured before we go into that dynamic or before I even flirt from that dynamic, you have to have some buy in from the girl, actually get to know you first.

With brats, should I be getting into the roleplay already and assume the role of dom and get straight to it with my first message or am dealing with lukewarm leads?