I'm an M29, pansexual, and my partner is F26, bisexual. We matched on Hinge and are both non-monogamous. After a few months of dating, we decided we were ready to explore as a couple.

I still barely get matches on Feeld; however, my partner has matched with many couples who are genuinely interested in both of us and not just her.

She usually tries to match with couples where the guy is bi/pan/queer. We have five couples that want to see us.

I think it's time for me to sit back and let her do all the groundwork in getting dates with other couples for foursomes.

Once she creates a group chat on the app or WhatsApp, that's when I become active and make a decent effort with communication.