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I donāt mean the 8000 miles away but āexploringā group - thatās a whole other annoying thing but weāve got threads on that already, or people with vpnās or whatever.
I mean people who are 100 - 200 miles away - because I canāt get past roughly 38 miles before Feeld wonāt show me any more. Iām in a rural place, but that takes me to the edge of the two nearest cities (which is also annoying - me being able to see you is a postcode lottery).
My (F51) filters are pretty wide, anyone except MF couples, age range 25 yrs wide, no distance filter (because - see this post - whatās the point), no desires filters because theyāre useless. Iām down as pansexual so that should include everyone except straight women and gay men. So I donāt believe itās because Iāve run out of people, it just stops at that distance.
With the best will in the world, clearing my feed so more people can be seen takes a really long time. I think about my likes really carefully, so Iāll like a few who make my heart flutter, X the ones who I can see wouldnāt be a good fit and are paralysed into inaction about the ones in the middle. I mean the ājust seeing what this is about peopleā that you just canāt make a judgement on, I could X them but then I get terrible FOMO at the idea that they might update their profile to say something interesting. Anyway I do my best, and sometimes I filter out men, because theyāre the majority and I want to see other types of people too, but even if I exclude women as well that still only takes my range to about 45 miles. Iāve never managed it get it much further even if Iām really ruthless because itās made not so easy to swipe quickly like that (which actually I donāt think is a bad thing), so it would be very RSI inducing to clear them all.
So how come people can see me and like me from so much further away (without me travelling) ? London is 120 miles and I often get people liking me from there, and further, but I have never been able get anywhere near London in my search. Glastonbury is 20 miles from me, in between, so last weekend that was my limit! Yet still they were able to!
(London is the nearest city to me you can explore by the way, so thatās not the explanation either, that people explore nearby - I know that affects lots of people on here)
I have 4 explanations:
1)They are X-ing 3 countiesā worth of people to see me - unlikely, Iād like to say I have a good profile but Iām not that special and also my age is a negative factor (with Feelds user base being mostly younger people) and they must have a lot of time on their hands
2) They are indiscriminately liking 3 countiesā worth of people, including me. I sincerely hope this isnāt the answer but unfortunately it is possible
3) There is such a low number of women on Feeld vs men that they can see much further with less people to look through. We do know that thereās a disparity as with all sites yes but this seems extreme. Very unscientific and rough maths but if I can see 40 miles and they can see 160 that means itās 20% women to 80% men. Thatās awful - for both sides!
4) Iām missing something! (a super-special- emperor-level subscription with extra features - /s, no need to correct me). Or thereās something wrong with mine (more likely)
(Oh,and thereās nothing unusual on my profile I donāt think, that could mean a specific search would find me from a long way away. I have ticked being dominant, but the profiles of the people liking me donāt suggest this is a thing, and Iām sure thatās not that unusual anyway)
TLDR - my question: Iād love to know how many people you can see, after a refresh and without taking any liking / X-ing action, and how far away in miles that takes you?
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Thanks but I donāt think so because thereās loads of them, and when I get a notification of a like, mostly Iāll see it and go and look straight away (because Iām very distractable at work), and see theyāre 200 miles away immediately, so they wouldnāt have been able to travel so far.
I should clarify in general on my question, I donāt want to be able to see people far away, I just want to be able to see all of my nearest city rather than a bit of it, so I want to see (and be seen from) about 60 miles max. I donāt understand why someone from that far away wants you to talk to me, itās so pointless. There might be an explanation for the odd one, but not all and thereās loads, it seems to have started as an issue in the last few weeks.