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MFM and FMF should be an option under ‘Threeways and Group’. All that’s available at the moment are MMF and FFM. Those are vastly different! I couldn’t understand why so many men listed as ‘Straight’ were putting MMF, getting my hopes up, only to discover MFM wasn’t an option and they didn’t realize the difference.
I think it’s a really important distinction, not just for the MMs as discussed but for the F. An MMF is literally at the top of my wish list, but (personally speaking) I can’t think of anything I’d like less than an MFM. And the number of wannabe extra Ms that want to be in an MFM but aren’t clear on the difference are one of the things that make the app kind of tiresome.
I take the point that it’s a bit of specialised info that might need a Google the first time you come across it, but isn’t Feeld positioning itself as a bit of an expert in this stuff and therefore should know better? and then maybe include an explanation to help others understand.
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I know what you mean, I’ve been offered lots of those and it’s really not my thing! To me it’s the psychology beneath things that are important. So as the “F” here (and I use those sorts of gendery terms with a bit of latitude but just for the purposes of this discussion), I know that what I’m looking for is sexual contact with 2 x “M”s and that’s the case in both an MMF and an MFM so why am I making such a fuss? But the massive difference is that the former involves 3 people all equally into each other tangled up in a sweaty heap (which is hot), and the latter feels like the usual male gaze porn where the F gets “used” (OMG I hate that expression) by the two of them so they get pleasured and get to watch real life porn in front of them at the same time while “making me have it” etc etc , or like you say one of them gets to watch, and then we’re in that whole cuck and bull territory which, I know is a thing for lots of people but really no not for me. It has been argued that I could just lay back and let the 2 Ms do things to me for my enjoyment while studiously avoiding each other (and no doubt apologising politely in typical British fashion if one were to accidentally brush against the other haha). Well no, because if I was in charge then I’d make them kiss each other for my own twisted desires anyway lol. I think it’s another example of casual sexism the more I think about it