Age: 47, open to 33-55

Appearance: Brown, 5’9”, Silver/ Salt and Pepper hair, glasses, brown eyes, freckles, Large and tall.

Location: Ontario, Canada (online for now, will want to meet in person.)

Pictures: Willing to exchange, just haven’t figured out how to link things here yet…

Looking For: Mono, Long-Term.

Traits I'm Looking For: I appreciate people who are well groomed, polite, self-sufficient, honest, kind, and emotionally available (this means not in a relationship). Be a good communicator, have your own hobbies and passions so we have real things to talk about and share. Witty and well read will make me swoon. A great sense of humour and being occasionally silly is the kind of interaction I enjoy. Tell me what you are good at in everyday life.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Dealbreakers include you being in a relationship already, smoking cigarettes, online only with no intention of ever meeting. Requirements: 33-55 (read self sufficient, can host when safe to do so, can travel post pandemic)

About Me: I love words. Reading, listening, having conversations. I like to observe things, get comfortable before I dive in. I'm a people person, an optimist, and a learner.

Single, living in a 3 generation home that is being renovated. I used to love to travel but staying much closer to home these days. Maybe one day I’ll get to dust off my passport. Interests include books, movies, live music, learning, BIPOC issues, 2SLGBTQIA community, reconciliation, and learning to capture images. Also driven at work and with learning opportunities, I do need to shift some of this focus to spending more time outside or being hands on, perhaps you can help with that.

NSFW Section:

Experience: I’ve been aware of kink and BDSM for most of my adult life but involved on the fringes. It has really been the last 5 years that I’ve been able to dive in and learn more about my likes and interests. This has been through hands on learning, attending events and workshops in-person and online. Specifically I’ve invested in rope, impact play, D/s safety and confidence among others. Always learning, would prefer to learn together with someone.

I have had some wonderful partners on both sides of the slash, both while exploring as a submissive, and over the last 3 years as a D-type which is much more natural for me. I appreciate and encourage open, honest, and kind communication to develop and maintain trust. Will share that my experience means I am finally investing in a play space of my own as well as portable fun. Tell me about how you would show me you're a good sub and help make dominating you fun for me too.

Kinks: I enjoy a variety of gender expression, for celebration rather than humiliation. I like obedient lovelies and discovering how to get them to voice delicious sounds.
I enjoy rope, bondage, tease and denial, rope, orgasm control, service (other than body worship, though that has a place as well), objectification, rope, and I have a sadistic streak. I appreciate an artistic exhibitionist – if we can’t be together yet, make artful porn for me. Or porny art. (I stole that from one such artist.)

Limits: Hard - Non-consent (ie. Children, animals, death), permanent marks, marks where public can see, scat, watersports. Soft Limits – blood, humiliation, brats

NSFW Dealbreakers/Requirements: Be within the age range (or very amazing if you are a year or so out).