SFW Section: I want to preface this by saying that I am hoping beyond dirty talk and "fun" stuff, we also have ways to support one another. People are flawed, I personally am not a motivated person. But I found that other people bring out the best in me, I want to please them, and in return I want to make their day just a bit better. I am hoping this is something others can relate to.

Age: I'll be 38 in July. A lot of my hobbies are "geeky" and well...kind of immature. So generally it seems I fit mostly in with people in their 20's, but I don't have any major problem with ages so long as whoever is fine with me.

Appearance: I have a bit of a "dad bod" I'm working on, I'm 198 lbs, 5'10", part of what I want to accomplish with this is someone keeping me on my toes to push myself to get in better shape. I am told I look young for my age, a lot of people tend to think I'm in my late 20's.

Location: I'm mostly looking for Online, if we happen to live close or something and things are going really well, I won't mind switching to IRL (I live in Texas, USA). That said, I'm still more of an online person.

Pictures: https://ibb.co/VJPMN6B Taken before my hair got obscenely long due to quarantine and not having a hair cut in over a year. I'll take a more recent one after I get a hair cut (but I don't actually change much)

Looking For: I'm kinda open to talking to multiple people unless I find someone I really want to dedicate too, I expect other's would expect the same. If they are talking to others and don't want to be exclusive, I don't think that's a problem. If I'm 100% honest though, I'll be shocked to even have one person that talks to me.

Traits I'm Looking For: I'm not a motivated person, so I am looking for someone that won't mind giving me a kick as necessary to get in gear. Being shy or quiet isn't really a problem, so long as you have the willingness/desire to speak up. I'm a romantic at heart, so I hope you are too. Also I can be somewhat clingy, so its helpful when someone knows when to say "okay, take a step back" and will honestly say how they want things to go.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Non-smoker please. I know I said online for the most part and it shouldn't matter, but I have a legit phobia about it. If you still want to respond to me (not sure why you would) it would be under the idea that you'll never bring it up or allude to it.

About Me:
I am 38, as I said. This is a major deal breaker, so I'll say it right now: I'm 100% single, I do have a daughter though. She lives with her mother in another state. I call her about once a week, and I'll visit her from time to time, but otherwise she's not a huge factor of my life. She's turning 16, there is 0 drama with her mother and I, but all in all, I don't suspect this to have anything to do with this at all. I just want to be completely transparent so its not a shock. Like I said, we don't really have any major interactions and I can't imagine why this would be brought up, but there you go. I am BACK in University, I'm in my last year. I decided to go back because I wanted to go into a better career. I'm working towards my Bachelor's degree in Accounting, still debating if I want to pursue my masters while preparing for my CPA. When I am not doing ultra interesting stuff like homework and projects, I tend to indulge in my hobbies of: Anime, Manga, Mahjong, Video Games. As you can see...not the most outgoing person. I do want to take better care of myself, hence I am looking for someone to keep me moving forward since my life is already in a pretty positive direction. I am happy, my bills are well and paid, I have a few job prospects already for when I graduate, I'm just more or less alone.

NSFW Section:

Experience: I've had several relationships, but due to my nature, I almost always seem to attract other subs. I've been forced to take a more "dom" role but...I'm really not a switch. I get burnt out and frankly, its killed...almost if not all of my relationships. I don't have a lot of experience, but I DO know what I want. I'm known for really spoiling people...so much so they get bored. I'm a bit too obedient, so...if you want a brat, we'd really have to work on it, but it will probably be rather bad at first.

Kinks: I'm into pegging, humiliation, watersports, figging, spanking, worship (just about anything but feet. I'm a sucker for a pretty face), spitting, olfactory stuff (sweat, used clothing, working out w/o having time to shower, etc.) <---none of which seems important for online, but its there, serving a pillow princess, going down on my partner, giving massages, hand holding, cuddles, random making out, and just randomly used as a "toy" at their convenience. The biggest thing is I'm pretty open to all the ways you want to play or break me, but please be willing to pick up the pieces afterwards and lots of affection. That is the biggest thing of all.

Limits: Soft limits: pain to a degree, I realize thats contradictory to some of my kinks but its like...degrees, so it really depends on intensity and possibly the play itself. Cucking/sissification (these aren't a no, but there is definitely a need for discussion for rules and expectations there).

Hard limit: Chastity. This is TMI probably, but aside from about 3-4 dates, and 2 online ONLY relationships...I've been single since before my daughter was born. I have not had sex AT ALL in the past 16 years. So I refuse to give up my ability masturbate. Other than that extreme pain/blood/uretha play.

NSFW Dealbreakers/Requirements: Smoking is still here.