Age: 33, interested in 24-35

Appearance: a little short, a few extra pounds but losing weight, white, shaved head and bearded.

Location: Denver, CO.

Looking for: Monogamous. LTR.

Traits I am looking for: Someone who is dominant in every day life. I don't like to make the plans, call the shots, run the show; I like to support the people who do, so long as they lookout for me and give me motivation (aka, smiles and kisses and love). Someone to motivate and encourage me to do better, and I will be there to support and comfort you in thanks at all times.

Dealbreaker: I don't have a physical "type" of woman I am attracted to, so long as she puts in the effort to look good. Otherwise, I don't have many dealbreakers outside of the obvious; don't lie to me, cheat on me, degrade me, take advantage of me, or any other form of abuse. I guess "taking advantage of me" would include expecting me to do all the work and also pay all the bills while you do nothing outside of the kinky stuff.

About me: I only recently learned that, yes, other people refer to themselves as "submissive" or "dominant" as a personality type. I didn't really know what to call myself. I work hard, pay my bills, and am getting better at taking care of myself, but I'm not good at being "in charge". I like to be the supporter or the helper; tell me what I can do to assist, or what my role is, and I will do it. I am very lovey-dovey and I always dreamed of a woman to hold hands with, kiss in public, tell her I love her, and just focus on making her smile, a smile that lights up my world. Meanwhile, she encourages me (and sometimes prods me) to push myself, to do better, to try new things, and makes me feel safe and supported so I am comfortable doing them. Outside of that, I am laid back, thoughtful, well-read, a good communicator (both talking and listening), and easy to get along with...although I get a little anxiety in new situations or with large, loud groups of people. I have considered few people my true friends in my life, but I have always been intensely loyal to them.

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Experience: None with others. This has been a learning experience alone for me. I have experimented with chastity devices, toys, a little self-bondage.

Kinks: Orgasm control/denial/chastity first and foremost. Some interest in both being a pet and being a servant. Also interested in bondage, anal (for me), some degree of verbal teasing, being physically teased, mild pain, mild public control (not sure of the right terminology here, but making me wear a thong on a beach outing or give oral in a semi-public place), might be interested in trying some breathplay. And overall, I need it to be gentle, positive femdom--I still want lots of cuddles, positive affirmations, etc.

Limits: It's hard for me to say exactly where my limits are. A light testicle slap or squeeze is fine, a kick is absolutely not, the and the lines in-between those two are not yet determined. I am happy to experiment, communicate, and have my limits gently expanded over time. But I am definitely not into real pain, humiliation, degradation, or a slave dynamic.

Dealbreakers: I am 100% not into human waste products, or cuckolding (even just as teasing), or anything actually risky (either physically or legally).