Age: 38, looking for 34-42

Appearance: 6', 218. Average build and dropping weight.

Location: Houston, and looking for someone in the area. Austin, San Antonio and Dallas are also possible within reason.

Looking For: I am typically a majority dominant switch, but I am looking for a patient, thoughtful, experienced domme to explore my submissive side. Open to short term either mono or poly, and in person after vetting. Long term would likely be mono. Understand that I do not need you to switch, but if your intended outcome is long term, I would want to be with someone that switches. If your desire is only to domme, I will respect your position and it is not my desire to "turn you" or ask you to switch.

Traits I'm Looking For: Honesty, intelligence, curiosity, a sense of humor and a desire to learn and grow will be very much appreciated, as these are traits that I seek in both friends and partners. I would prefer someone that takes care of themselves physically, as this is growing more important in my life. I enjoy creative people, so bonus if you also have creative pursuits. In terms of the dynamic I seek, if you go through the history of some of my posts elsewhere, you will see I greatly value the ability to create a safe environment to explore both ourselves and each other, and empathy, the ability to listen and ask the right questions, and making an investment in each other is very important to that pursuit.

Deal Breakers/Requirements: Please no smokers, heavy drinkers, and no drug use. I am fully vaccinated and am requesting that you be too. STD safe.

About Me: I have a solid, stable career, as well as a broad range of hobbies and pursuits away from my job. I am an entertainer, writer, musician, designer, and maker. I am single and currently live on my own, and I take pride in my home. Going for a run or building something is how I clear my head. I enjoy cooking and am always looking to expand my skills in the kitchen (French pastries are likely what I'll dive into next). I enjoy long conversations about anything and I seek out people that know things I don't and love anyone with a significant passion that's willing to tell me all about it. My schedule is quite busy and picking up as things open up, but I am more than willing to dedicate time in my life to this pursuit.

BDSM Experience: I have been through a broad range of BDSM practices, but only in the context of established monogamous relationships. This will be the first time I'm seeking out a partner, play or otherwise, specifically with BDSM in mind. I have primarily been the dominant in these relationships, but have switched often as my partners have desired to. My personal experiences in a submissive role have covered a lot of ground but my best traits are my attentiveness, willingness to fulfil my partner's wants and needs, being clear on my boundaries and building trust to allow those boundaries to be approached and pushed as a means to satisfy my partner's desires, and my ability to feel joy and pride in satisfying my partner's desires. I have grown to understand the things I gravitate towards as a dominant are pretty much parallel to what I feel I desire as a submissive.

Kinks: I am extremely open and willing to talk out and negotiate a range of things, as I do take great interest in new kinks and exploration. My biggest kink is probably taking a dive with a partner and discovering a new kink that I didn't know existed. My specific kinks as of now are psychological play/total control (sensory deprivation, sensation play, immobilization, encasement, breath control, etc), bondage (rope, restraints, extreme/excessive restraints), and latex (I enjoy the sight of a woman in latex of any kind, not just specifically the stereotypical "black domme attire". I enjoy it enough that I have started to make latex clothing myself, although I am not much of a wearer. I will wear it pursuant to a visual and mental transformation as my partner desires). I am interested in impact play, as that's something I haven't experienced as much.

Limits: Hard limits are non-consent, blood, feces, urine, cutting, needle play, forced bi, forced public display/any display to an unwilling observer or 3rd party, permanent marks, visible marks that can be seen while out in public, findom, cuckolding. Soft limits vary and will be discussed more as we interact.

NSFW Deal Breakers/Requirements: The limits listed above, findom, breaking trust, 24/7 dynamics, extreme pain, disease free

I appreciate your time and consideration.