SFW Section:
Age: I'm 23 myself and I'm open to an age range of 18-27.
Appearance: I'm a rather small (173cm) guy with an average weight (I think around 64-67kg). The picture below will make any other description here pretty redundant so just take a look there :)
Location:Ā I'm a German living in the Netherlands and for the past two years I learned Dutch. However, I'm also open to online.
Pictures:Ā https://imgur.com/a/bWFlnGv
Looking For: A mono and short- or long-term relationship. Ultimately I want a long-term relationship but it's not a necessity. Of course only if it works out and I feel like we both connect to each other.
Traits I'm Looking For: I'm looking for someone that has a good sense of humor, can make me laugh but also laughs about my bad jokes. I know this is a long shot. I'm pretty open to all kinds of people as I'm really compatible.
Dealbreakers/Requirements: You must enjoy yourself when texting/talking with me. If that's not given, I'm not going to enjoy myself either so that's a requirement. How do you know if you'd enjoy yourself? There's only one way to find out.
About Me: I'm a full time student and part time worker. My friends describe me as āDedicated, helpful, honest, cheerful, organized and passionateā, at least thatās what they say to my face. I love doing stuff that is not allowed during Corona, like going to concerts & festivals (I normally average >10 per year), I normally have a good and entertaining social life although that got compromised quite a bit now. I am very invested in sports but most of the time I'm watching while others play.
As I mentioned, I am German but living in the Netherlands. I study Marketing in English but learn Dutch on the side, which is an incredible language that I want to be able to speak fluently within the next few years. Before studying I was already working in IT in Germany. I'm focused on my education while still enjoying life to the fullest. I am very happy with where I am in my life :)
NSFW Section:
Experience: I started researching BDSM way before I was 18 and in hindsight, I behaved submissive from my childhood on. Back when I was playing "cops and robbers" with my friends, I always wanted to be the robber that gets caught and handcuffed in the end. I was fully aware of my kink from around 15-16 onwards. I therefore introduced both partners that I had since then to it and both were really pleasantly surprised. So I have real-life experience but to a limited extent. Back then I did not feel very comfortable talking about everything I like so I introduced them only to certain kinks of mine. I also had a quick online-relationship that was short-lived but fun, so I am comfortable with sharing pictures, videos, etc.
Kinks:Ā O god, where to even start? I absolutely love: A loving Top that can also be strict, making my top happy and feel good, getting disciplined but I also freaking love being bratty. I am very good at finding buttons and pressing them :) My other kinks are honest and open communication. You can't believe how much they turn me on. Oh and also Bondage, Orgasm control, CBT, Anal (and everything that you can think of within these kinks).
I also like chastity, although I'm a biiiiit scared, which in turn turns me on, so I want to try that. I own looooots of toys which makes things very fun for both of us. I like the mental aspect of domination and submission so much. Feeling that someone has control and power over me makes me squirm and get into subspace so easily. And I hope that this feeling of power and control will put you into domspace because then we probably fit well :)
Limits:Ā I don't have a lot of limits besides anything feces and vomit. I've tried a lot of things except for those two and I won't try those. I even tried around with needles so blood isn't necessarily a limit. Oh, I'm really afraid of public play and humiliation in general, so I count them as soft limits.
NSFW Dealbreakers/Requirements: I want a play partner, but I also want to connect with you. I want to get to know you, I want to please YOU and fulfill YOUR desires, even if mine do not fully align with yours. I want this to be an adventure for both you and me. I want to go out of my comfort zone to broaden it. To be able to achieve this, I need to feel safe with you. Therefore my requirements are that you are serious about what you're doing and that you have a similar or fitting goal.
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