SFW Section:

• Age: I'm 38, and open to 20-60 years old depending on chemistry and experience

• Appearance: I'm 1.6m, size 10 with an hourglass figure.

• Location: in looking for an in person relationship in Singapore

• Pictures: http://imgur.com/gallery/yOafuMU

• Looking For: I'm poly, open to everything from casual to a long term relationship. I'd prefer to just see how things go.

• Traits I'm Looking For: Someone with some experience and an interest in exploring and pushing boundaries. I like my partner to have a backbone and be successful (for various definitions of the word) and understands the demands of a career oriented partner.

• Dealbreakers/Requirements: I prefer non smokers.

• About Me: I'm a Canadian who moved to Singapore in 2015, then spent a couple of years in Sydney and now have been back in Singapore since Feb 2019. I work in digital marketing as a Program Director. I just came out of a long term relationship back in June and am just starting to consider enjoying more than casual FWBs.

Outside of work I cycle and lift weights, bake, cook, hang out with friends, take photographs, knit, make ceramics, watch netflix, and read... I love learning new things, be they crafts or more intellectual pursuits.

NSFW Section:

• Experience: I started doing this a long time ago - I've got over 2 decades of experience.

• Kinks: I love power exchange (was 24/7 in both of my previous marriages - once as Domina, once as slave), primal, teasing and denial/ orgasm torture, fisting, edging, foot worship, breath play, hair pulling, biting, face slapping, extreme consensual non-consent (home invasion, abduction, etc), impact and pain play, humiliation/degradation/dehumanisation, and of course bondage (the more restrictive the better)... i love to experiment and push boundaries and experience firsts (my own or others). Basically if we need a ton of aftercare and days to recover afterwards, I've had a fun time.

That said, my style of domination is very nurturing and caring, though I don't identify as a MommyDom. More that I enjoy caring for my toys ;)

• Limits:  * Nothing illegal on a major scale - kids, animals, dead people, actual non-consensual acts (though consensual non consent is fun), etc * No Cheating (if you have a partner and you're not poly, sorry) * Smoking (i won't smoke tobacco, i rarely play with people who smoke cigarettes. Vaping is ok) * No Bodily fluids unless we become fluid bonded (golden showers are ok, but I won't ingest, scat and vomit is a no-go, blood and semen only if tested and bonded) * I have a fear of water, so no waterboarding and care is required with liquids around my face (facials, golden showers, etc) * Soft limits include permanent marks, lactation, needles, pet play and abdl * Marks need to be able to be hidden by clothing * I'm a believer in Risk Aware Consensual Kink and Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink (over Safe Sane Consensual, as safe and sane are objective), so pretty much everything else I evaluate the risk reward and decide.. for the most part though just about anything else goes depending on trust and negotiation

• NSFW Dealbreakers/Requirements: I'm not a fan of bratty behaviour, and I'm really not looking to take on a teacher role so if your first response is "oh you can teach me!" We probably won't get on well.