The majority of my inlaws are overweight and an alarming number of them are obese. They love to have parties and because there are a lot of kids we are always going to a birthday party. The food is pretty much always the same which is hamburgers, hot dogs, potato salad and lots of chips and soda. In addition to birthday cake there will be all kinds of candy given out to the kids. Some of these kids are obese to the point that there is no way they are not getting close to having juvenile diabetes. We are talking big guts with a puffy face that looks like it is being smashed forward. The parents seem to enable this bad behavior and I've noticed that they don't really monitory what their kids are eating, I once noticed one of them eating 3 helpings of cake and ice cream. What worries me is that if my wife and I have a kid her family will be very involved. How am I supposed to say that I don't want my son/daughter going over to grandma's house because I don't want my kid to get fat?