23m until the lockdown I was a average body type maybe a little stocky now I'm a bit thicker went from 99lbs up to 126lbs and I've noticed a trend on my grinder and out in public alot of polar opposite guys seem to be Into me twink type guys half my height and size which is something I've never experienced before I thought why not try it went on a date with one of them who expressed he was bi but was attracted to bigger guy's and the date was very sweet he did not insult me or try to make me uncomfortable he was really charming and flirty even asked for a second date and mentioned his want to have a feede this is something I'm very new in as I've actively struggle to maintain a healthy weight so I'm at a crossroads I like the guy we share interests I'm not against the idea of being his feede but how do I establish boundaries without disappointing him or making him feel kink shamed is this the correct sub too ask