So, here it goes. I’m a big guy—a really big guy. I weigh in at 423 lbs, standing at 5’9, 38 years old, and I’m proud of who I am. I embrace my size and all that comes with it. But there’s something I can’t seem to find, no matter how hard I try: a woman who loves big men.

Now, I’m not just talking about anyone; I’m specifically drawn to women who are thin, average, or muscular—those who openly identify as fat admirers. The kind of women who genuinely appreciate a big, hefty guy and aren’t afraid to show it. There’s just something about that dynamic that clicks with me. But here’s the thing—it seems like these kinds of connections are few and far between in Texas, or even across the US.

Every time I think I’ve found someone who matches what I’m looking for, it turns out they’re already taken. I respect relationships, so I don’t try to get in the middle of them. But it’s disheartening to feel like I’m constantly coming up short when it comes to finding my person. I know she’s out there somewhere—a woman who sees beyond the surface, who appreciates the warmth, depth, and comfort of a big man.

I know it’s a specific preference, but that’s what I’m looking for and attracted to. I’m not asking for pity, just hoping to put it out there that yes, big guys have specific tastes too. And we’re just as deserving of love, affection, and appreciation as anyone else. So if you’re one of those women, or know where or how I can attract someone like this, please help!