I’ve been feeling a deep need for a meaningful, romantic connection, something that goes beyond the surface. Lately, I’ve found myself longing for someone to spend time with, someone who really listens to me. I understand how infidelity could harm the lives around me, and I would never take that step. But I feel torn between my own desires and the responsibility I feel toward my family, to keep everyone happy.

I find myself drawn to my sister-in-law because I see how much she does for her husband, who doesn’t seem to appreciate her. At the same time, I crave love and attention, things that have been missing in my relationship for a while. People have suggested counseling, and as partners, we’re open and communicative. I’ve shared how I feel and what I need, without assigning blame. I guess, more than anything, I just need someone to talk to and help me sort through these feelings.