I'm a mid-forties professional. I'm tanned and keep myself fit and healthy - you'll find me at the gym most days. I love good food and love to cook.

In a dead bedroom marriage, I'm looking for that missing spark - to desire and be desired again. I love to spoil and pleasure a woman. I don't want to change your situation or mine - I'm looking for a FWB NSA arrangement that satisfies both our needs. I am in Sydney and ideally you are too. I’d love to chat and get to know you and let’s see where it goes from there.

Happy to go at your pace. We could chat for a while and see if there's a connection or I'm happy to meet in person for a coffee or a drink. For your protection and mine, I offer excellent OPSEC and would expect the same. More than happy to take the lead in organising a safe and discreet meet up if we connect.

I know there's a gazillion guys on Reddit looking for the same thing and there's very few real women on here, but I'd love to hear from you if you're out there!