When I go out with wings, I realized they all get rejected and for them game is getting rejected.

When I look at myself (have a girlfriend and a kid) but still want to improve a lot in social dynamics, i only get positive reactions like laughter's, compliments (after approaching)

Because i really dont value "getting laid" for me it's just making newer connections and learning how to engage..

But mostly i dont get much of rejections because i dont push my limits?

For example i don't get much physical, even i know it's key to the girl to show you have no probs doing so.

Even i want, i can't ...

Does that mean I need to push myself more?

My sticking points are: not being comfortable with being physical. Because there is no need.

How can I solve this?