I’ve noticed a lot of people in this group have recently been “coming out” to their parents about not believing… I just wanted to say stop cause that’s dumb lol

There’s absolutely no need for you to turn your whole world upside down over something so serious in their eyes….

Just live your life undercover then move out when you’re good. It’s not like being gay cause you could just marry a non-Muslim and say they converted.

If they ask you out of the blue, a simple answer is “I’m not as good a muslim as I want to be” and that will keep them at bay. It’s almost like some of you don’t think of the consequences. If you live in a non Muslim country you can literally just say this line every time until your parents are dead. Go to school, get a job, move out, live your life… Nothing in your life is going to get better by telling them how you believe ESPECIALLY if you can’t take care of yourself yet. (No matter how chill you think your parents are)

I’m engaged (nikka, so I’m their eyes were married) to a Mexican and my parents welcome her with open arms because she “converted” and is “still trying to learn when she can” we don’t live together or anything. I’ve managed to secure myself a “halal girlfriend” I sleep over at her house and she at mine😂😂

Muslims are very easy to trick as long as you don’t tell them bluntly that you don’t believe in something they care about so deeply.

I say this with as much respect as possible… Please just do a little thinking before you decide to potentially ruin your life before you even get a chance at living it.

I’m open to any questions people may have about details of my situation because she was a secret from my parents for the first 4 years of our relationship. (26M)