Hey guys,

So I'm going through a dilemma. I've recently started trying to date after stopping for about a year to get back into shape. One of the things I've run into that has been a huge barrier is being in their early 30's with lack of sexual experience. I know some of you can relate given what we went through, and not being able to explore our sexuality naturally like most people. It is a huge barrier. If for some reason you match with anyone (which for me is not often,) sex comes up and you are often asked what are you into. Depending on your answer, you will get unmatched or interest is lost fast. No, I don't want anyone that doesn't understand my struggles I'm in the first place, but I'm also a realist and know that it severely limits my options further. I'm a minority in a 90% majority state that has racial biases, coming out of a minority religion, dealing with a minority group where sex is a huge currency. Have you guys had to deal with this?