Hi there,

My brother (elder and older than me) with whom I have almost no contact since I faded (december 2020), wrote me a letter.

When he asked for my adress I told him he could send me letters but nothing related to the meetings (I had already set thos boundaries in january, which he did not respected, when I met him).

He sent me a letter to tell me how nuch he loves me (which is very kind) and then 2 pages about the meetings and why I should go (he included his research; jwlibrary articles...) And then he copied me the 2011 article about 607.... I mean, is he dumb??? When I told him about my doubts, I precisely got them because of how disingenuous the article was....

He included that he was sad that we had less contact.

My questions, since I would like to have contact with my brother. What can I do, since he seems to not be able to accept my boundaries? Should I answer him? Phonecall? What can I tell him?

Is it a good idea, since I now live my life and am breaking a lot of rules? Or would it trigger the elder he is and make him ask me questions to know what I do, to just collect data to "help" me with a judicial comitee?