It’s just funny to me that the whole time I was at university I didn’t get ANY support from my grandparents and now that the rules on shunning change- they want to be included in this special time for me. I cannot believe they think that I would want to talk to them about my achievement that they not only disapproved of but didn’t bother to check in or send food or anything until now the old white men say yeah go ahead call your loved ones that you shunned- and they’re upset now that I don’t wanna talk to them at this time even tho now they approve bout secular education. Then turn me into the bad guy like fr get some help- I’ll talk if you cut a check for my debt.