This is not me, but my older PIMI brother. When he was 21, he married a sister who was 16-17 years older than him. It was a quick start to the relationship - less than 6 monthsfrom meeting to marriage, but after 11 years and two kids he realised he'd messed up and wanted out. They agreed to divorce, but the elders told him under no circumstance could he marry again.Problem is, he's got his eye on a sister from a neighbouring cong, and she wants him too.

Absolutely no way can they be together without getting df'd, so what do they do?

Their solution was simple yet effective. They both da'd, got married in a registry office... and then said we're very sorry, can we come back? Welcomed back in (because who doesn't love a penitent sinner?) and reinstated after a year or so.

Has anyone else heard of j-dubs gaming the system like this?