No it's not. I often hear Christians say things like this about Christians who are too extreme even for them. They act like Christianity is all fine, and the people who are hateful and violent are outliers. Sometimes, a system’s problems are the fault of the established system being fundamentally flawed rather than the actions of the people within the system. Christianity is one of those times. The entire doctrine is fundamentally evil. Think about it; it says that countless people will go to hell for the crime of loving the "wrong person" or for not wanting to be a slave to a man who will abuse you and treat you as lesser. There is no getting around any of that. Christianity is rotten to the core. And yes, I am aware that progressive Christianity exists, but I actually agree with the radical Christians that it isn't real Christianity, though I think that is a good thing.