My family is fssp, but luckily my (20f) grandparents let me live with them. I am gay, and deep down my parents knows this but they are in denial. My grandparents (non Catholic) are very accepting though and are amazing to me, and they let my gf come over and stay the night whenever I want. My grandparents are truly the best, my whole childhood spoiled me and gave nothing but me and my seven younger siblings love. My siblings and I are truly my grandparents whole world. My grandparents were also great parents to my mom. Anyways, somehow my parents found out I was dating my gf. No one outted me, but I think it was pretty obvious. We always are together.
Lately my family haven’t been coming over. I assumed they were just busy, it’s been hurting my grandma though as she misses them. She also assumed they were busy. But then my sister (who is in college) told me our mom mentioned the kids aren’t allowed at my grandparents house anymore, but my mom didn’t say why. I knew exactly why. I called my mom and asked her why they weren’t coming over anymore, and that grandma misses them. She just plain told me she can’t go to someone’s house who lets that sort of evil into their home. I started crying and said “but it’s your own mother, don’t hurt her like this” She said my grandparents were welcome to come over if they wanted to, it’s not like they are banning them from seeing my siblings, my family just couldn’t come over to that evil home and expose my siblings to that. and this was my fault and I’m the cause to all this pain, and imagine how bad she feels that she doesn’t feel comfortable going over to her own parents house and that I’m stripping my siblings from seeing my grandparents. I just hung up. I told my grandparents all this, who started crying, and they told me it wasn’t my fault. I told them I wouldn’t have my gf over anymore, but they assured me it was still okay. I feel so horrible to put my loving grandparents, who are nice enough to let me live here for free let alone have my gf over, through this. The fssp is so heartless. They can’t even put their own mother over their worldview. I shouldn’t be surprised but I just can’t believe it. They’re more Catholic programmed robots than people. I’m heartbroken for my grandma.