Attention comes all too easily, but I confess I have a specific type which is increasingly difficult to find and vet for on apps so I am open to meeting someone who might live a little further away but is still based in Europe. 

I am after someone who is 30-40ish, actually chubby or bigger (aka no skinny people with body dysmorphia), socially fluent, emotionally intelligent, experienced with women, prefers cities to the countryside, finds beauty in all shapes and sizes and cares deeply about issues affecting women and minorities. If you choose to write to me, please introduce yourself properly and let me know that you check the above boxes.

My interests (current and dormant) include activism, beauty and skincare, bodybuilding, eating disorders, foooood, gaming, law, Louboutins, medicine, nutrition, Pokémon, psychology, science, singing, sumo, travelling and wasting time on the Internet. I do not generally watch TV or movies, so I will not get most of your pop culture references (unless it is RPDR or OITNB). I wish I could call myself an avid reader, but that was two decades ago. I don't hike, am not a huge fan of being out in nature and am uninterested in anime.  

ENTP since MBTI is trendy again. Those close to me would describe me as affectionate, driven, fun, generous, loyal, thoughtful and worldly but also sometimes scatterbrained, sensitive and stubborn. 

I don’t currently have pets but love dogs, am open to future children, do not smoke, loathe the smell of weed and consume alcohol once in a blue moon. Unable to relocate in the near future. Ambiamorous and believe vanilla is for ice cream but absolutely not into sexting randoms, porn throwaways, D-types, unicorn hunters and OPP. 

Happy holidays!