I am childfree (no won't change my mind for the "right" man) and because of that struggle meeting people who are like minded. Often people perceive me as the traditional wife material because I am not a wild party animal, but that does not work because I do not want kids, I do not cook well and I do not like to be treated like a fool. I am also not the slut material either. Life's easier when you are in inside a box, I guess. Not as interesting but easier.

Anyway my life plan involves buying property in my country stay here for the next ~10 years to accumulate some money and then start travelling the world and the plan ends there, no idea what I will do next. Maybe learn French, Russian and gardening or study some social science. I also want to have the experience of living in a big city like NYC or SF for at least a couple of months. My dream destinations are Italy, Greece, Cape Verde, somewhere in Africa where there's lions, South America, Iceland. In fact everywhere. If you offer me a trip I won't say no. But if its me who has to buy then I will probably choose somewhere warm with History, hiking spots and beaches.

I am usually driven, meaning I like to have goals and I am disciplined. Example, I was afraid of water so I enrolled in swimming classes now a couple months in I can swim fairly ok and love it. I go even when its fucking cold, no excuses. I was not satisfied with my career I switched. You get the idea: identify probem -> find solution -> apply solution -> no more problem. I mean I don't want to pass the impression that I love life and know what I am doing, I don't know what the fuck I am doing here half of the time but I learned that since I am here I must make the most of it and I also think it is not productive to keep complaining of things out of my control.

Currently I am focused on saving for downpayment of house (so I am interested in investment and in finding ways to increase my salary), being more assertive and confident.

I am interested in people who are equally focused in their lives, like to have fun (i.e travel, short trips of ~2 weeks because I have dogs so can't be away for too long) and are not too needy. My opinion is if I can trust the person then I do not have to message 24/7 all the time. If I don't trust, its probably because the person gave me a reason not to, so I am not interested to lose my time anymore. In other words, if you can't control your cock, then probably not right for me.

I am an extremely proud person (probably will have to work on this on some point of my life) I absolutely hate to get the lower end of deals on everything in life (career, relationships, purchases, etc). If I feel someone is treating me unfairly or trying to manipulate me into accepting some deal that goes against my interests I become Daenerys Targaryen when she burned down the city but luckly I have no dragons. Just dogs.

I also have a dark sense of humour, in fact my humour comes in all colours, dark, white, grey, red, whatever. Love to share memes on Facebook who will probably offend someone on my friend list (but its fine most of them I don't know or speak with for years now anyway).

I am a person who falls in "love" fast (if I find the person interesting and attractive) but I don't think that's truly love (more lust or passion) because the interest also goes away fast. I think love is a long term, stable, boring feeling and never met anyone towards whom I felt that yet.

And thats it, message if you have similar goals and attitute towards life.