Currently located in Germany but relocating to Copenhagen soon.

Writer. Artist. Designer. Geek.

I'm Millie for short (she / her) and I'm (with the right pairing) a sex-positive 30-year-old demisexual with heterosexual leanings. I've traveled to 14 countries and counting. I work in the educational sphere, but as a screenwriter in my spare time. I'm an autodidact and a poor person's polymath, lol. I find philosophy, theology, tennis, foreign films, creative writing, and discussing dreams and fears intriguing. No small chat conversations, please. I'm a geek, writer, designer, and artist looking to find my little piece of the globe to call home. Perhaps it's a person and not a place? Looking first and foremost for a new best friend. If something else develops, all the better.

I'm moving to Scandinavia in a year or two once my work contract is finished. Please refer to the "No-goes" portion of my bio. I will be quickly weeding through all those who have NOT read through my bio. Not only does it show literary competence and patience to read through it, it equally shows you have a sincere interest in getting to know me. : - *

ABOUT MY MATCH

I'm looking for an open-minded kindred spirit who wants more than surface-level, humdrum conversations. Philosophies, ideologies, theories, hidden talents, quirks, desires, fears, goals… let's talk about it! I expect kindness, respect, and openness in my friendships and relationships, and I present the same.

In a relationship, I want a kind-hearted, giving, affectionate, polite / respectful, liberated, empathetic person, who has a special joi de vire and is down to earth. Curiosity, a love of learning and the arts, passion for justice, can keep up a conversation with me and wants to grow / improve with me. Transparency and communication are key. I have a strong libido, so even though not crucial, it's strongly preferred that I have someone who can match that. I love being affectionate with the right partner. My love language is acts of service, with quality time and physical touch coming in as second and third. I would prefer someone a bit similar to this as well. Preferably someone who does not want to constantly talk politics, and understands it's actually just an elaborate game that most are suckered into. Feminists only.

No-gos for romantic compatibility: Not open to smokers, addictive personalities (no porn-watchers, drug addicts, alcoholics), racists, those against or skeptical of feminism, against the LGBT , anti-BLM, egotistical personalities, or extreme conservatives .

MY FIRST "DATE" IDEA Can be something completely simple or unexpected: a late-night stroll in a moonlit park by the lake discussing the meaning of the universe, rock climbing at an arena until we laugh at how sore the other is, watching a local tennis match and discussing the sports stats after, making a fun dinner together (and having a mini food fight in between), reading favorite book passages by a fireplace on a frigid winter's night ... I'm open to something new and unexpected . :-)