Heyo 🙇‍♂️ I'm David (25 yo) and to be honest I don't know what I'm looking for. All I know is that I want something meaningful and lasting and I hope to find it here. I've been a lonely guy most of my life due to being introverted and having a tendency to isolate myself. Being lonely has never bothered me until few years ago and now that I'm getting older I realize how important it is to at least have a handful of people I can turn to for anything. Now I wanna try to be more social, but have a really hard time doing so, but this is part of my atempted to change that.

A bit about myself:

I'm 25 yo, 183cm, Bi, 420 friendly, born and raised in Europe but parents are african, I speak english, german, french and 2 more languages, I live with two annoying but lovely cats, I have a stable full time job.

Personality wise I can say that I am rahter stoic, laided back, open-minded, self aware (most of the time lol)... etc. My general live motto is "life and let life" and I'm the kind of guy you can vent to and come to for unbiased opinions or advices. On the other hand I'm a bit nihilistic, very low energy, sometimes anti-social, can be apathetic and reserved. Those are things I wanna change about myself but its kinda hard to do that when you don't know how.

I spent most of my time playing video games, watching tv shows/anime/youtube and spent in general a lot of time online. Also finaly started reading more lately. Other than that I don't do much unfortunately, but I'd like to have more active and social hobbys.

I like dark humor, memes, deep and chill conversations about pretty much anything even NSFW type of stuff. I'm also very open to learning and trying new things

What am I looking for:

At the very least I want a nice and fun chat or maybe a gaming buddy would be great to, but at most I hope to find someone I can have a deep connection with that leads into something meaningful. I want someone who I can share the things I love doing with, someone I can discover new things through, someone who can help me grow as a person and most importantly someone I can feel comfortable with and just be myself with. Obviously I also wanna provide these same things in return.

I don't really have any specific requirements other than you should be able to hold a conversation and patience cause it takes me a bit of time to get comfortable with someone and open up. Other than that really anyone is welcome. Looks, age, gender...etc don't matter to me that much as long as we can have a great time togehter.

Its a bonus if you live in EU since I prefer talking to someone in the same timezones and it makes a potential meet up more likely if it ever comes to that, but its not a requirment.

If we get along well I would like to move the conversation to Discord or any other plattform. I don't mind having voice chats, but that depends on how comfortable I am and how good we vibe.

If my post got your attention and you're interested, then please leave a dm.

Have a nice day. 🙇‍♂️