My Bio in short

Age: 28

Physique: 180 cm tall (5'11"); 64 kg (141 lbs); fit; fair complexion; dark brown, sweet eyes; dark brown, thick wavy hair kept short; a short V-shaped beard. Overall, you could consider me a good looking "otter", since I'm fairly hairy and slender. I might share SFW pictures of myself upon request.

Personality: a real introvert, I love and need my domestic alone-time. I used to be very shy in my adolescence and early adulthood, but I think I'm partly growing out of it. I'm pragmatic and try my best to apply the moral teachings of Stoicism to my life.

Nationality and languages: Italian, but I'm fluent in English and anyone should feel free to approach me, regardless of geographical distance. I'm open to all possibilities.

Occupation: PhD student in Chemical Sciences.

Likes: Youtube podcasts and infotainment; cinematography classics; synthwave, chillwave and lofi music; writing erotica; working out; personal improvement; tea. Guilty pleasures? Hearthstone and Drag Race.

What am I looking for?

So, what am I looking for? In one word, complementarity. I'm looking for a man that will complement my desires and aspirations in a mutually fulfilling relationship, I want to be completed by and complete someone. I'm drawn to the archetype of the traditionally masculine man and albeit I don't expect anyone to embody an ideal, I wish to be with someone who will identify with it, to some degree, just as much as I erotically identify with a gentle, delicate archetype associated with traditional femininity, in spite of being a fairly masculine gay man in real life.

Picture a date with me:

You might come pick me up and be the one driving the car.

You might open the door for me when we arrive at our destination.

You might insist on being the one paying the bill.

You might be the one taking the initiative to kiss me or hug me.

And if we came back to your place, maybe you'd carry me to your bed.

You might be gentle or rough, but your pleasure would be all I would care about. I would love nothing more that feel you on top of me, asserting your dominance even in bed.

In short, you'd be the one in charge, calling the shots, wearing the pants. I would respect that and adore you merely for your confidence, no matter the results. This doesn't mean you'd have to take all the decisions and bear all the burdens, I consider myself a fairly resourceful person, in fact, but I would step in only if you asked for it, otherwise accepting any decision of yours with complete gratitude. Wouldn't you be proud of being so strong, to have a devoted partner like me? It would be a bit like a very old-fashioned straight relationship, wouldn't it? Except gay.

If you've come this far, thank you so much for reading. If you think you might be interested or are just curious to find out more, please don't hesitate to drop a line or just say hi, I'd love to hear from you. Kisses!

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