But this is low stakes, right?

I am looking to get to know someone who is 30-40ish, based in Europe, actually chubby or bigger (aka no thin people with body dysmorphia), socially fluent, emotionally intelligent, experienced with women, prefers cities to the countryside, finds beauty in all shapes and sizes and cares deeply about issues affecting women and minorities. Women and bi/queer/pan/trans guys to the front of the line - I would *love* to hear from you.    

My interests (current and dormant) include activism, beauty and skincare, bodybuilding, eating disorders, foooood (rare steak please), gaming, law, Louboutins, medicine, mental health, nutrition, Pokémon, science, singing, sumo, travelling and wasting time on the Internet. I do not generally watch TV or movies, so I will not get most of your pop culture references unless it is RPDR or OITNB. My favourite book is Stone Butch Blues and author is Sylvia Plath, though I don't consider myself an avid reader nowadays.  

Those close to me would describe me as affectionate, driven, fun, generous, loyal, thoughtful and worldly but also sometimes scatterbrained, sensitive and stubborn. ENTP since MBTI is trendy again. I have done the whole lesbian U-haul thing before so I have the propensity for being pretty damn impulsive and intense. I am low-key hoping for such a connection again, but we can go as slow as you like.   

I don’t currently have pets but love dogs, am open to future children, do not smoke, loathe the smell of weed, consume alcohol once in a blue moon and am unable to relocate in the near future. I am ambiamorous and believe vanilla is for ice cream, but am not into D-types and unicorn hunters.