A soul mate and more! is that you?

I do not have a preference, so if I like you, I like you :)

❝ Soulmates are friends whose spirits travel together, hearts, break and mend together, and souls, rise together in love, acceptance, and harmony ❞

― Janet Autherine, The Heart and Soul of Black Women: Poems of Love, Struggle and Resilience

Hi,

We're walking into 2023 and I want to start it with you, I want us to build this new year with joy, laughter and memories. You're my new year's resolution and everything that comes with it.

I'm A____, my name means unique in English. (can you guess it?)

I am studying Engineering Advanced Technology as applying the knowledge of physics into the real world has been a big inspiration for me to take the major. I was torn for a while between pure physics and engineering, and in the end, I chose engineering. I would say I have the ability and talent to marvel at life.

How about you? In what ways do you express what your inside universe is like?

I love reading poetry and literature whenever I have spare time. I am an avid book reader and also like a healthy dose of philosophy and psychology. My favorite author is Paulo Coelho and favorite read 'The Alchemist'. Which is your favorite book and why? How did it change you?

What does your perfect date look like?

Mine - I'd love to take you on a vintage picnic date. Just me and you on my blanket, listening to The Paper Kites, Sleeping at Last, Hozier. Some lights and food. We'd be laughing and feeling like teenagers again.

---I'll take you to my favorite places too, so grab your backpack and meet me at the bus stop. We'll catch the bus that goes to the swiss alps. We'll pick yellow wild flowers and berries. Sneak out from the hut at midnight with a few blankets to keep us cozy while we watch the starry sky, with nothing but fireflies and dandelions around us.

---We would make wishes while blowing dandelions, and you would have no idea that my wish had already come true, thinking there's no other place I'd rather be in that moment. Where is your favorite place?

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To summarize – I'm 23 years old straight male, 6ft tall (182cm), natural black hair, dark brown eyes, and fairly fair skin :D

― I am an empathetic person, and I can put myself in your shoes and understand your troubles and suffering and console you the best I can, and I'm looking for someone who can reciprocate that as well.

― I am outgoing introvert and have lived in several countries before, you could say I'm quite an adventurous person, I like exploring different cultures, cuisines and cities.

― I'm passionate about linguistics and can speak English, Italian & Urdu fluently, I can also understand basic German & Spanish (hoping to learn both of these one day)

― I love memes, and I'd love to hear all your jokes. I love puns and cheesy pick-up/flirty lines. I'm not as extroverted as I may seem. If I had to choose between a party and staying in my room doing my thing, I'd choose my room.

― In my spare time, I like to listen to music and play video games, I am really good at Badminton and Volleyball but finals are around the corner so the sports are on pause but I do play often PC games.

― My taste in music is all over the place, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in, but I like melancholic music, and sometimes it spirals me into a loop of sadness. But I also like pop, jazz, country and instrumental music.

So why Reddit and not Tinder or any other apps? Because there are like five main types of people in Tinder - "I don't use this, add me on insta", "Citizen of the world", "Traveler". Yes, we all like to travel and eat pizza.

What am I looking for?

• Someone who's funny, and we can share memes and laugh. Sarcasm, flirty chats, and puns will be appreciated
• Someone who would genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Would be interested in getting to know me and be open so I can get to know you too
• Be present, initiative, and thoughtful
• You would like to meet up at some point in real life, and we'll have that cozy first airport hug
• Someone I can send and from whom I can receive cute good morning / good night texts
• Someone who would enjoy receiving details from my day /pics, videos, voices messages/ and would include me in their day by sending me selfies/pics/videos etc.
• You would be interested in having at least one date night a week / watching a movie or playing games together on a video call
• You'll believe in me, be there for me, and fight to be with me

What I'm not looking for?

• Someone putting minimal to no effort
• Someone who'd ditch me and cancel our date to go on a girls night.
• Someone still not over their ex from 10 years ago / Emotionally unavailable
• Liars and cheaters
• Someone who would see me as less than her friends
• Someone who'd eat broccoli or pineapples on their pizza

If you're wondering what are some of my bad sides:

• I'm a homebody when I'm drained? I am lazy sometimes and end up being bedridden or a couch potato.
• I can eat sweet potato fries for the rest of my life, if you order french fries I'd probably eat yours, too
• I'm a night owl and sometimes I am going to bed around 3am and waking up at noon.
• I'm an emotional and very romantic person, if you're more on the cold side it won't work out

What am I offering?

• To be your best friend. I'll always be there for you.
• A lot of physical affection, I will love hugging you, kissing you, playing with your hair while you lay on my chest.
• Compliments. You're probably hot af, and really gorgeous. I'll make sure you never forget it or doubt yourself
• Love you harder on the days you can't love yourself
• I'll be there for you when it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. Clap,clap,clap.
• I'll read you asmr bed time stories
• I'll be honest and always do my best to work things out, I'm pretty straight forward and you won't need to read my mind
• I'll believe in you
• I'll never give up on you

I know this is a long shot, finding my person on Reddit. But so was the possibility of the universe existing, and yet here we are.

You're probably far away, but that's okay. In quantum physics, once two particles experience a shared state, they are no longer separate entities but exist as one.

So let's build each other up, be the best version of ourselves, let go of the past and live in the present, let's travel and fuck and be happy!