A few weeks ago I made a social media post about having mixed feelings about this holiday season since it’s the first in many years that I’m single.

To my surprise, a friend of my ex commented and invited me to his holiday party.

I messaged him privately and thanked him for the invite but told him I wouldn’t be comfortable attending a party my ex is at. He responded that my ex is not invited. With this info I expressed my appreciation and said I’d love to come. I also asked what I could bring but didn’t get a response.

The party is in a couple weeks. I havent received anything formal. I wasn’t expecting a written invitation or anything but I haven’t gotten a text or a social media event invite or anything.

I’ve been to this persons house once before but I don’t remember how to get there and I don’t have the address. I also don’t know dress code or what time.

I’m having a terrible feeling that maybe this person had me mixed up with someone else when they invited me.

What should I do? I feel like the options are:

1) forget about the party…if he wants me to come he’ll reach out with details 2) send him a message to confirm date/time/what I can bring 3) ask another friend who is probably invited to ask if the invite was intentional or a mixup

What do you think?