So I began a search recently today find a male LMT that’s genuinely good at his craft but also doesn’t mind adding a sensual component to it. So pages like rent masseur and masseur finder aren’t great for that. I landed on massage book and found a guy in my city who is an LMT and I was easily able to confirm he’s gay through social media accounts. He’s also very attractive, in my eyes. I reached out to set an appointment. A couple of texts were exchanged and I asked about draping preferences. He answers that he prefers professional but is okay with casual if I am. I didn’t want to outright ask if there were sensual or erotic components to this massage because I enjoy the mystery of it all. Sadly, he quickly followed up by saying “Full transparency, I do not offer happy ending. Erections happen but it’s not my responsibility or in my practice to help “take care” of those should such a thing arise.” In my experience, I’ve had a couple masseurs tell me similar things over text but the in person reality was different. Should I just give up in hoping this guy will provide any sensual components or do you think there’s some hope still there?