The following doesn't describe a single massage that I've had, it's more a composite of all the things I like in a male massage.

Firstly I negotiate the type of massage I want with the masseur. It should be sensual rather than firm, and I should be naked and uncovered throughout. The masseur should be naked as well, or at least in skimpy shorts. I make clear that I want to interact with him during the massage, and that afterwards anything goes.

I'll be laying face down as usual for the first part of the massage. I make sure that my cock is positioned under my stomach so that he doesn't see or touch it until I roll over. I've told him to concentrate increasingly on massaging my buttocks and inside thighs, my main erogenous zones.

When he tells me to turn over, he will see my big erect cock for the first time. As he applies oil and strokes it, my hand will hold his cock, or if he is standing at the head of the table I'll take his stiffening cock in my mouth. Then he deep-throats me, before climbing onto the massage table and lowering his ass onto my cock. Finally we both get off the table, and I bend him over it and fuck him until I climax inside him