For reference I’ve only ever been with escorts and if you also have you know it can be nerve wracking experience, hence why I’m hesitating to call it ED when I haven’t been with someone I’m genuinely interested in.

I think it might be psychological, but I’ll be seeing a urologist in a couple months.

Anyways when I lost my virginity at an AMP I was able to stay hard but not finish.

Then I got prescribed adderall for my ADHD and since then I feel like I’ve had a difficult time staying hard or sometimes even getting hard. I still get morning wood and can get erections randomly at work when I’m looking for escorts or thinking sexual thoughts.

I’m also not sure if it’s the adderall because of those reasons.

However I’ve seen the gambit of women some extremely beautiful and some not, and most of the time when I see these girls I’ll have 2 doses of bluechew in my system, about 30 minutes (max effectiveness in my case) to 1 hour before activity.

I think doses is 25mg per tablet so 50mg, sometimes 100mg if I see one two days in a row.

This is their sildanefil btw.

However I’m starting to wonder if it’s physical because I used to jerk off a lot now I don’t do it as much since I’m trying to practice self control and save it for escorts, but IVE NEVER FINISHED FROM SEX only masturbation.

I’m also wondering if I have a death grip.

Any suggestions or a check list I can run down to evaluate?

I will say using the blue chew is nice but even that wears out after a bit but the erection will come back.

It also seems like with the escort situation my erection can be spooked off, ie smell of cigarettes, girl looks like a drug user or smells bad etc.

In college we did the math and I would jerk off at least 60 times a week. All of this was to porn I can’t remember the last time I didn’t use porn to jerk off.

Also 27 year old asian male, on the heavier side at 245. Last I checked my T levels were 351 ng/dl which seems low but my doctor won’t allow me to hop on TRT as she says they’re in the range.

245 roughly 30% body fat, I do lift weights but my diet isn’t the best. Not alot of processed food but the past month I haven’t really cooked.

Let me know if there’s any other data points i could add. The escort habit is getting expensive and honestly is a bit addicting, and to not finish kinda sucks. I am seeing a therapist now and have brought up this stuff to her a bit.

I’m also considering if I should get prescribed cialis via hims. I like the idea of not needing to take the medication prior to activity and just taking it in the morning, though it seems it would be difficult to take it two days in a row?