Is it an ENTP trait to have difficulty getting over past relationships? I'll ruminate for ages over what might have been, what was said, etc and from past experiences, this can go on for years. :-( Jumping into another relationship doesn't help in the long run - it only stops the rumination while the hormones are in full kick, but once that goes, back comes the endless thoughts. This happens for me regardless of who broke up with whom, and FWIW, I was the initiator for most of the breakups in the past anyway.

Being absorbed in hobbies or whatever are similarly only brief respites. Anyone else with the same issues? Advice on getting over it?