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Hi, 22F ESFP.
I love having ENTJs in my life, I feel like they compliment me in the best ways, and encourage me to be the best version of myself. They always say that they enjoy my company, and how they enjoy talking with me, but in the end they always leave.
Iām just wondering if there is something I can do differently to keep these people in my life? I really do feel like Iām better with them around. Their confidence, their efficiency, their excellent communication skills, their work ethic, their energy, their assertiveness, they just in general inspire me.
I want to make these friendships work, and so I ask you, what is it you look for in a friendship? What can I do to pull my weight? How can I be worth your time?
For me it bothers me a lot when I spend my energy effort and time into helping you work through something or figure something out only to see you make no effort to initiate the change and everything just stays the same and we keep having the same discussions.... You want to be better or feel better but don't want to do the work to get there it's crazy and exhausting.... I'm also an Aries, I will literally walk thru fire with you, but I don't want to be the only one with burnt feet... I invest too much into people I care about and it gets to be so draining when I care more about you than you do.
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