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i (infp, f) met this entj (33m) on a dating app and during the date he basically talked about himself/his opinions 95% of the time - granted i'm quite shy and he did say he tried to talk more because he felt like if he didn't, we would have a lot of awkward silences between us which i appreciated since it takes me awhile to warm up to people and talk more. he also says that he's super passionate about work and absolutely loves to work, works 7 days straight sometimes, and during dinner he also answered two calls twice (one of which was from work) which tbh was a bit of a red flag for me because as an infp when i'm hanging out with people one on one i appreciate it when both parties are just present with each other. otherwise he does seem quite nice, says that i don't have to agree with everything he says, and he said that he'd be keen on getting in touch again after i get back from my two week holiday.
my question is, are all entjs like this? if he answers calls during a first date, then is that how the rest of the relationship is going to be like? because i would hate being with someone who's not able to be fully present with me. for me as well, i work so i can enjoy my hobbies and live, whereas this guy seems like he lives to work. i'm just not sure how a relationship between an infp and entj can work :/
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