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So I have learned I, (and I feel like a complete looser for saying this) have been a victim of financial abuse. I have been married for 12 years, had a solid paycheck for 10 years. Wife pulled money from every paycheck and put into a joint account to pay our bills and put money into a savings account. I recently learned that the savings account was empty which I assumed I was at over $30,000. She has not been paying the bills the way we agreed upon like paying extra on the mortgage every month. She used the savings account is just another personal account for her use. I remember calling and asking permission to have some money when I want to buy something. After 10 years, I finally asked to see the account information and I was told the account is empty and no, I cannot look at it. I have given this woman everything as far as passwords powers of attorney and even made her executor of my will. Now she will not let me even look at any of “our” joint bank accounts. 10 years of every tax return, reenlistment bonus, and two deployments which she took extra money from. I was not even allowed to buy my father a used refrigerator which really burns my ass, especially when she denied me this the day that he ended up passing away. I confronted her again last night and told her that what she does and has been doing is by definition financially abuse. She also took a tremendous role in my business, failing by doing things like withholding certified mail, turning my alarms off, and doing anything she could to throw me off track. She is even badmouth me in front a potential customers as well as done something to cause me to lose a customer for a pretty profitable job. I feel like a complete fool because she clearly has no regrets because the account I never had access to she blamed me for it being empty. She has yet to even ask for forgiveness, or give me any passwords to any of the accounts. I feel so stupid, disrespected, used and abused. I’m ready to end this shit I call life, I want to give up, I wish I had the courage to do it. If you read this far sorry for my pathetic rant, not asking for sympathy, just a rant that honestly the only person I want to say anything chooses to be silent.
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