I’m here to introduce myself and share a bit about why this community means so much to me. I was married for 10 years to someone who endured unimaginable trauma, starting from when she was just four years old. She was abused and neglected by her own mother, who responded to her trauma with words that still haunt me: "Go take a shower; you're not clean." Watching her carry that pain every day, and witnessing the way her mother’s abuse continued to harm her, was heartbreaking. I tried everything—moving cities, seeking support—to make things better, but in the end, we divorced two years ago. That experience left a lasting impact on me, showing me just how broken our support systems can be, especially when it comes to dealing with deep emotional wounds.

In my journey to better understand these struggles, I stared to study psychology. I studied it formally, but over the past eight years, I’ve also done my own research because, to be honest, I found traditional teachings lacking. Psychology, as it’s often taught, provides a few general techniques and expects us to apply them to help billions of unique individuals. It’s just not that simple. Each person’s pain, experiences, and healing needs are profoundly different, and the “one-size-fits-all” approach misses that deeply. I began to feel that mainstream psychology often cares more about profit than true, individualized healing.

Why I’m Here

I’ve joined this community with the hope of offering the kind of support that feels personal and genuine. I’m here to share what I’ve learned, to listen, and to provide encouragement that’s tailored to each person’s unique journey. I know that finding a space where you truly feel seen and understood can be rare, and I want to contribute to creating that here.

What I Hope to Achieve Together

I want this to be a place where we can talk openly about our experiences, share insights, and explore ways to heal that go beyond the surface. Whether you’re here to tell your story, ask for advice, or just read along quietly, please know that you’re welcome. This is a space for all of us who’ve felt invisible, neglected, or misunderstood.

Looking Ahead

In the coming weeks, I’ll be sharing a series of posts where I’ll dive deeper into some of the insights I’ve gathered, with the hope that they may be helpful to anyone going through a similar journey. I’ll cover topics related to emotional neglect, trauma, and healing, aiming to provide tools and perspectives that may feel more genuine and practical than traditional methods.

Thank you for being here and for allowing me to be part of this community. I’m looking forward to growing and healing together, one step at a time. 💙