I'm 25F and my mom is 44. I'm the oldest of 4 kids from a single mom. She had me at 18. I know my mom had a rough life herself. She was a broken she had me and it only got worse. My mom also has a drinking problem. Idk I just know she's hurt me so much growing up. Alot of my issues come from her. But she appears tells me ur life wasn't that bad I didn't hit u or let u get trashed ect. No but u laugh at my suicide note. Tackled me drunk in the tub. Always told me I had no reason to be depressed instead of listening to me. Never affectionate towards me unless it was special occasion. She provided food and roof and clothes for me, physically I was taken care of but emotionally/mentally I was on my own. My therapist says I was neglected but it's hard for me to call it that since I was taken care of in basic needs. Now I'm married and have a house with my husband. My mother and youngest sister live with us. I wanted to move them in hoping to improve their life, especially my sister. It's be so hard... My mom like an overgrown teenager, still struggles with drinkin,I get annoyed with her pretty easy cause it's always something with her. She's gets upset that I'm not patient with her and always moody especially when she's drinks. She's says an I just gonna hold it over her forever? But I'm not trying to she just won't understand I'm hurt. And she keeps doing dumb shit instead of getting her life together. Still drinking. Idk I'm so frustrated.