A lot of you single guys approach the lifestyle all wrong. First, this lifestyle is not your personal cheating venue. Us as couples have talked and agreed to enter a lifestyle. We don’t need your drama when you ultimately get caught cheating. Next, being in this lifestyle has NOTHING to do with a husband’s ability to please his wife, so stop talking to couples as if your their knight in shining armor there to save their marriage. This is a sexual kink for most, not a necessity. Also, stop sending unsolicited penis pics. The size of your penis is not going to convince a couple to play with you. Not to mention, make sure you are bigger than the husband if your penis size is your selling point. Nothing makes you look sillier than you saying “young and hung” and you have a “5 penis. Hung is “8 . Stop talking dirty to couples in the first message. “I want to fuck your wife” is a TERRIBLE opener especially if they don’t necessarily find you attractive. Next, Bisexual means exactly that. If you don’t do everything with the same sex you do with the opposite sex, you aren’t bi. Stop saying “yall can suck my d”. That’s not a compliment. The husband may be doing it to please his wife, not because he wants to suck your d. This lifestyle is about respect. Manners make friends.