My denial slut and I have been in this vicious cycle of long stints of denial separated briefly by periods of slight relief for 19 months now. His orgasms are few and far between and he is caged for me in chastity 24/7 (with small exclusions for cleaning or for the time he’s allotted as an edging allowance each week).

One of our goals has been for him to have a handsfree orgasm in his cage. He’s gotten close several times but there is a mental block allowing him to hit that point of no return without touching. It’s been an amazing journey though with a lot of kinky attempts so I will let him share those experiences himself 😏

On discord today we were talking about future attempts and acknowledged that once it happens, it’s not something he will be allowed to experience so freely again. Right now he’s on a strict denial schedule (it’s been months I think but who’s counting 🤭😏) but is allowed to cum if he can cum hands free in his cage.

It just led me to think more intentionally about why I wanted the set up of his orgasm control to be handled this way. And the truth is that I could deny him of orgasms all together and he would still suffer just as much for me. But wouldn’t his suffering be even sweeter if he knew exactly what he was missing 🫦 to have the tiniest of tastes of victory after all the effort, only to have to ripped away without another chance to experience that high. And it’s not even a high! - it’s a painfully frustrating ruin. But denial is fun like that - mental anguish becomes pleasure when you’re devoid of the latter.

Oh right this is a discussion post 🤭 tell me about your HFO experiences! 👀