I’ve begun to hand out this this girl that I am beginning to like and it feel like she likes me. Into a month of hanging out she told me she has a eating disorder called Anorexia nervous binge purge. I’m the type of person that research’s things to figure out how I can get through things and incorporate them into my life. After researching I found out things that I have to change the way I talk, how I eat around her and most of all be supportive. The signs and things that she does that makes it hard for her to accept that I like her for her. She as opened up to me a lot and told me things that shows me that disvalues herself and body. I’ve been supporting her and always try to be positive for her. I figured out that she likes rules and has things to do in a certain way so she can function. I always ask how is she doing and feeling to she where she is at mentally and emotional in throughout the day. Sometimes she rants about the same stuff over and over which I think is kinda cute but sometimes she ghosts me for a few hours or even a day, which that worries me. She does see a therapist which helps her a lot and mellows her out. In a way I’m happy she has the therapist but sad that she is going through all this, because she’s a great person. I’ve tried planned things with her and the day comes and she flakes out. I want to be with her but I’m not sure if I’m able to get through this without losing myself. I need to know what I should and need to do to show her that I really care and want to be with her.