Tried to go to a fun karaoke event at a local queer bar tonight, which ive never had problems with, (been 4 times before now and Im a from out of state student, although that has never been an issue) and when I go to present my id as usual, I get met with an extremely rude, "This is fake, get out", which I tried to prove that it was indeed me on the id, as I had my credit card, passport, being the only car in that lot with that state's correct plates, and other identifying information with me, though the bartender wasn't having it and kept telling me to get out without listening to me and I had to leave without it.

For reference im from a state where unless you get bottom surgery, you cant change your license at all, and the pic is from may of last year with my deadname. I do look a bit different than the pic, as its been 1 yr HRT from then to now, but I've litterally had no issues anywhere else ive had to show it.

Finally after calling the police and reporting it, I got my id back from a very polite and professional officer ab an hour and a half later because they had to go to the bar to get it from the bartender who tried to act like the situation never happened at first, but admitted to it after a minute and handed it over. Has anyone else had their ID seized like this and how do I not let this happen again?

Edit: happened at superior, wi flame last night